November 08 2009

Collins: Letter to young American women

It’s possible that you have been told a time or 10 that you don’t appreciate how tough your elders had it. It’s true that, if you had been coming of age back in, say, 1960, you would probably be feeling more restricted, if only because you were doomed to spend your days in a skirt, nylon stockings and girdle. (Everybody wore a girdle back then, even Barbie, the individual least in need of a foundation garment in American history.)

Back then, if you wanted a career that involved travel, you’d have to have become a flight attendant. Although good luck with that — there were 100 applicants for every opening. People paid to go to special schools to learn how to improve their chances of being chosen for that very job that involved appallingly low pay and allowed you to be fired if you gained weight or got married.

via cnn.com
November 06 2009

What Women Should Do, According To The Infinite Wisdom Of The Internet

Interesting…..LOL. Google is so weird.

November 01 2009

About being an adult and friends and parenting.

I came to a conclusion tonight.You know how high school is great for helping awkward teenagers find friends?  It’s the forced interactions, the homeroom class, the accidentally “falling in” with the group of friends you just HAPPEN to fall into.  It’s being at the same place at the same time with the same kids, and at some point - relationships organically form.  I didn’t really have that much in common with my friends in high school, we just both happened to hate the new choir teacher and share the same lunch table.

I’ve decided that being a parent will be the next form of high school in my life.  When you’re a parent, all of a sudden you have these friends that just HAPPEN because of interactions with your child.  It doesn’t matter how much you have in common with these people, as long as you’re at the same volleyball games over and over.  Or as long as you’re in the same playgroup, or PTA meetings, or as long as your kids are friends with each other.  There is instantly something to talk about - “Hey, you’ll never guess what Little Johnny did last night” and so on. I’m actually looking forward to this some day.  I think having some forced friendships might be good for me. :)
October 29 2009

How Twitter has changed the Blogosphere, but not in the way you think

Twitter has changed the blogosphere by fundamentally shifting the appeal of casual sharing from blogs to Twitter itself. Where as once upon a time everyone wanted or eventually had a blog to share their thoughts, today much of that has shifted to Twitter.

I think this is quite true. I actually struggle now with blogging, where before it came so easy to me. Now, when I write a blog - I think of it as a permanent, SEO-driven, and lengthy post. I used to not mind just sharing a link on my blog, but now I feel that Twitter and Facebook are the place for that.

A blog post is noteworthy when I have something longer and meaningful to say. When I want to pose questions in which I can refer to the answers. When I feel the need to educate others in a searchable and more permanent way. Although, this Posterous is a hybrid of Twitter and a Blog, on my other sites like Cuppycake.org I feel the need to be more long-winded and less casual due to Twitter.

October 28 2009

Obama signs hate crimes bill into law

President Obama on Wednesday signed a law that makes it a federal crime to assault an individual because of his or her sexual orientation or gender identity.
via cnn.com

This is huge, because it’s a giant VISIBLE step from our national government that gays, lesbians, and transgender people are United States citizens and are not second class. They are deserving of civil rights and protection under the law, and Obama is willing to make some changes to fight for them.

October 27 2009

Anli & Laura's Lesbian Gamer Geek Wedding

Click through and read this whole article. Their wedding looks absolutely gorgeous!

The Disney Princess Feminist Fail

Everyone knows Mulan is the best.

Some people are better than others (From Seth Godin)

Every industry has people who are worth more, buzz more, care more and buy more than other people. Don’t treat people the same, find the ones that matter more to you, and hug them.

This is why influencer programs exist and prosper. There are certain users who will generally benefit a community more, either through enrichment within your community or outreach and viral marketing for you. Some are a combination of both, and those are early adopting thought-leaders. They are greater than the sum or their parts, many times over.

October 20 2009
October 19 2009
NoH8: Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence « Stuff Queer People Need To Know

NoH8: Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence « Stuff Queer People Need To Know

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